Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Do You Suffer from Dating ADD? Carpe Date-em


Our It’s Just Lunch Personal Account Rep was very excited about a DC matchmaker match she had made for our client Jill as they seems to be a perfect fit.  Knowing Jill would be happy about the match as well, she was looking forward to the call.

Low and behold, Jill agreed that Jack sounded perfect!  Her next questions was, “Well who is my next match and where am I going after I meet Jack?”  Jill, Jill, Jill…


When we set up matches, it is very important that you give your energies to your current date, especially if you agree that they sound like a good match.  If you are concentrating on dating, you will not give enough attention to the person sitting across from you. The person you are on a date with.  If you agree that Jack may be a good fit, he deserves a fighting chance by gaining your attention even if It’s Just Lunch.

If you are serious about wanting to be in a relationship, you have to understand that dating is a mean to an end. A way to get to know and understand people, not a means to know and understand dating. That, Jill, is our job!

Have you found yourself thinking about who is next instead of giving your date a fighting chance?

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