Tuesday, September 20, 2011

How To Be Direct with Your DC Date; Tell it LIke It is


Jack and Jill went out on a date in Virginia at Panache on Thursday.  Food was great, they had a decent conversation and Jill thought that all was going quite well. 

When she asked Jack for his contact information, Jack simply stated that he was not sure that IJL knew what was right for him. This turned Jill off to IJL and to Jack as well. What Jack had done was use IJL as an excuse not to call her.

Being more direct with your dates seems to be the most effective way to get the most out of dating with IJL. If there is no chemistry between you and your DC date and you are honest about it, you can move on closer to that one date that IS “The One”.   

What Jack did, in effect was make himself look sheepish and negative. Wouldn’t you agree?

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