There is an old saying that "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression." Nowhere is that statement more true than in the world of dating! It's important that you use the brief window of opportunity that an It's Just Lunch date provides to put your best face forward. Here are a few tips to make sure that your date gets to experience the best of what you have to offer:
Be on Time! For some, showing up late to a date is a sign of disrespect or disinterest. While last-minute emergencies and monstrous traffic can happen to anyone, it's important to arrive to your dates on time. If you can't avoid being late, make sure you call the restaurant and have them give the message to your date--it shows thoughtfulness to let them know you're on your way!
Dress to Impress! It's Just Lunch is a service for professionals, and, although we wouldn't expect you to show up to Sunday brunch in a suit and tie or a cocktail dress, what you wear does matter. We advise our clients to adhere to a "business casual" dress code to ensure that no one is over- or underdressed for the occasion. Showing up to a date in a flattering outfit can only improve your odds of sparking someone's interest!
Keep it Light & Breezy Most people know that they should avoid the trifecta of "conversation killers"--sex, politics, and religion--when meeting new people. In a first-date situation, we have to add in exes, money, and future plans. Talking about an ex can kill a conversation because what starts as a simple explanation of why things didn't work out can turn into a bashing session that makes your date wonder if you're really ready to meet someone new! It's easier to simply say that things didn't work out, and that you've moved on.
Discussing money on a first date can convey the impression that you're materialistic. Save the net worth talk for when you're serious enough to consider merging your finances!
Finally, while it might seem like asking someone whether they want to get married and have children is a reasonable way to determine whether they are a good fit, don't do it!
On a first date you don't yet know whether this is someone you even want to spend the day with, let alone the rest of your life! Focus the conversation on determining whether your date is someone whose company you enjoy enough to want to have another date with, and take it one date at a time.
Happy Dating in DC!
Krista White
DC Dating Diva
2 comments:
DC Dating Do: I listen to feedback all day, and if I could give one DO to remember it's the FLIRT!!! I've heard time and time again that a date felt the other person wasn't interested when in fact they were. The flirt was missing! So guys, loosen those ties and compliment her shoes. Ladies, freshen up your lipstick and don't forget to laugh at his jokes. A little flirting goes a long way!
I always have a positive experience when I have gone into a date with confidence and kept conversation going. The date goes really well when I show a lot of interest in him and ask questions. My last boyfriend told me what got his attention was how I made him feel special on our date. He said that was one of the reasons why he asked me out for a second date.
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