As an Its Just Lunch Metro DC matchmaker, I was recently asked if women actually took the initiative and gave their card out even if the guy didn’t offer his first. Sure! It’s 2011 and a lot of the “old” rules don’t apply any longer.
If you consider yourself “old fashioned” and aren’t sure how to go about letting him know you’re interested you may want to consider keeping it casual!
Try: “Here’s my number. Let’s meet up for coffee.” Or something like “Give me a call if you want to check out that exhibit at the Smithsonian we discussed.” “How about meeting up at the dog park on Sunday?” Remember, no strings, just a friendly meeting!
And don’t worry if he doesn’t seem as interested or doesn’t extend his business card as well. Maybe he’s the shy type. Maybe they think you don’t find them as interesting as they found you. By letting them know you are interested in seeing them again maybe you’ll give them the confidence to give you a call.
Krista White
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If you're on a date with a guy and he hasn't taken the initiative to ask you out, feel free to ask him. Men like confident women. It's a huge turn on for them when they know you want to see them again. So, don't be shy! You've got nothing to lose!
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